Leak .. Bloat .. whatever you want to call it .. stop being a bunch of two year olds and maybe try to fix the issue and stop the bickering or I'll have to put the two of you in the naughty corner.
Whatever you call it ... it is a problem and needs to be fixed.
7... 8... 9... 10 .... *deep breath* ... ANYWAYS ...
I just set up my game to run JUST Carbonite and Ark inventory (as well as a memory info addon) and I see NO issues with the game crashing. Memory starts at around 22mb and so far has peaked at 25 (and as low as 19). No where do I see it steadily climbing.
TBH if 100mb of addon usage is killing your game there may be a bigger problem. My normal UI runs at around 100-110 on a typical night.
Have you tried running any other games/programs that require a lot of system ram? See if they crash too. How much system ran do you have?
EDIT .. Been running for over 20 mins now and memory has yet to go much higher than 25mb