In Auld Lang Syne there is an optio called "sync" that allows you to sync your friends list on one char, and match them up with another char on the same realm in your account. You cant do it cross realm or faction because by default you cant add opposing faction toons to your friends list...otherwise I would have a KoS list like 5000 poeple. So, in short, Auld Lang Syne will sync your friends list, hope that gets you one step closer!
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