Welcome to the site and the game.
I suggest you download the addon ButtonFacade. This will enable you to skin Bartender4 and any other addon that supports it. You will also need to download a skin for it to use - these can be found on the Optional Files tab of the ButtonFacade page.
http://www.wowinterface.com/download...tonFacade.html
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