When I said you were mean but blunt I didn't mean that I thought you were mean :P But you are blunt. My mother is blunt, but I envy her because she doesn't allow people to run her over, and I'm the exact opposite IRL :O
Coding does take time, it really does. I'm still learning and things I don't understand yet, frustrates me so I take time off. I come back and I learn more things, take time off, etc etc etc. Coding, takes MUCH TIME and much brain power staring at Lua all day long, its hard lol. I'm not even that good at coding and I feel the pain of staring at Lua so long, I dreamed about Lua, and that ain't cool :O
Anyway, I have much respect for you Chaos, and all the coders out there because they are smart, intellegent, artistic people that give me much inspiration.